Having teens is a challenge, wouldn’t you say? I always wonder if what I say is heard, sinks in and is retained. Or even comprehended? So many times throughout a day I think of something I’d like to tell one of my kids. At their ages it’s no longer “don’t make that face or it will stick that way”, but rather “as long as I’m living you will always be my child and I will ALWAYS be here if you need me” to “when you say your prayers tonight, don’t forget to pray for your future spouse”. But, with busy lives, like most, they aren’t always with me anymore.
With having so much to say, not being sure what I say they actually hear, and wanting to them to have something tangible they can go to for advice when they are older or, God forbid, something happens to me, I created journals for each of my kids. Hopefully it will be a great keepsake for them and their children.
I only make one entry per page. Each time I make an entry I date it and set it on their beds which lets them know there is something to read. On occasion I put a treat in it ~ a piece of candy ~ just to be sure it gets opened. There may not always be a prize in there, but they are sure going to look.
Some of the things I write in them are scripture verses with advice or explanation, dating/marital advice, praises for anything I feel they need it for, and warnings about the pitfalls of life. I’d also like to start adding small printed photos with my entries. I try to keep it short and sweet so they can easily remember it.
I picked these up at Mardel for just $5.99 each. When full, I’ll just pick up another.
Happy Rainy (Flooding) Tuesday, Y’all!







March 20th, 2012 at 8:54 AM
So precious! May many seeds of love, joy and peace be planted by your words!
March 20th, 2012 at 4:32 PM
I love this idea….even though mine is almost 17, I am so going to have to do this! I have a friend who had twins last year and set up gmail accounts in their names and emails them stuff so they don’t forget it.
March 20th, 2012 at 4:33 PM
Reblogged this on Lost on the Horizon and commented:
Even though my daughter is almost 17, I totally love this idea…partially because I know in time the text messages will get deleted and the post it notes will get lost. I’m definitely going to have to do this!
March 23rd, 2012 at 7:03 PM
You’re such an awesome Momma, but you already knew that ‘cuz I’ve told you like a gabillion-zillion-trillion times already!!!!!!!!!!!
Hugs,
Nicole
March 23rd, 2012 at 9:14 PM
I wish I felt the same, Nicole! I appreciate your encouragement for sure! You always feel like you can do more…